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To answer that question, I have 20 things you can try.
Small note there, BDSM is more a lifestyle than a way of sex, I will come back to that later.
1. Get spanked!
Nothing makes a person feel naughtier than being bent over their lover’s knee (think about that scene in Secretary with Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader!).
“If you decide to receive a nice little spank, be open to it,” says Sadie Allison, Ph.D., founder of TickleKitty.com and author of Tickle My Tush: Mild-to-Wild Analplay Adventures for Everybooty. “This means letting go of maybe feeling silly, and engaging in the fun by making sounds of lust and passion with each spank. Or play with your partner by teasing him and saying things like, ‘Is that all you got?’”
2. Let Him Tie You Up
Many women find taking the submissive role during sex to be a major turn-on (hello, 50 Shades of Grey). The best thing about this game is that there is no plot, script or planning necessary. Just whip out a scarf, some tape, a belt and let him take over. The rest will follow.
“If you’re just starting out at bondage fun, take baby steps and make sure there is 100 percent trust if you’re going to be tied up,” says Allison. “Also, create a ‘safe word’ with your lover so he knows that if/when you use it, that means stop immediately.”
3. Watch porn together
Choose a female-friendly film -- that means one with an enticing title, a silly story line or simply pick one with actors that you find attractive!
“Understand you’re watching an erotic video for both your pleasure. So unwind, relax and enjoy,” says Allison. “And if your man gets excited by what he sees, let it turn you on instead of making you feel insecure or jealous.”
Try to watch the entire film. Wait until you are both bursting at the seams before you satisfy each other’s urges…and maybe recreate what you just saw.
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3. Watch porn together
Choose a female-friendly film -- that means one with an enticing title, a silly story line or simply pick one with actors that you find attractive!
“Understand you’re watching an erotic video for both your pleasure. So unwind, relax and enjoy,” says Allison. “And if your man gets excited by what he sees, let it turn you on instead of making you feel insecure or jealous.”
Try to watch the entire film. Wait until you are both bursting at the seams before you satisfy each other’s urges…and maybe recreate what you just saw.
Read More here
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